#MeToo

What is the #MeToo Movement?

The hashtag MeToo movement is a female populist movement of the early twenty-first century. It originated as a hashtag label on a popular social media platform, Twitter. The #MeToo quickly rose in popularity following wide usage of it to address the issues that women have faced in relation to workplace sexual harassment.

Wide usage of the hashtag movement eventually led to the emboldenment of women in sharing their sexual harassment stories. Women became more courageous and confident in telling others about how they have been harassed, knowing for a fact that they are not alone in the predicament that they were facing. More women began sharing their stories online in hopes of encouraging others to press on in the face of adveristies.

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The above shows a women flashing a flashcard with the slogan “#MeToo”. Anoymity is one of the key benefits that social media platforms provide to victims alone. Victims are able to voice out their opinions without fear of being judged for who they are, etcetera.

Why is sexual harassment in the workforce particularly bad?

Sexual harassment in the workforce is particularly detrimental in the sense that it impedes the progress of a company. Companies can be impaired economically, when lawsuits are filed and employees have to miss work to attend court hearings as the suspect of sexual harassment. The namesake and reputation of companies would also potentially be at risk if a company is accused of encouraging a culture of sexual harassment in its workforce. Companies are profit-driven, and having a bad representation would be extrememly detriemental to companies through the loss of potential investors and customers.

Hence, many companies tend to do their utmost in silencing cases of sexual harassment in their companies. This can mean silencing the victims into submission by brute force or by bribing them monetarily to prevent them from reporting the case.

Often in times, sexual harassment occurs in the form of a male superior and a female sub-ordinate. The female is often lured into sexual advances by the male predator through supposed benefits to female once she concedes to the male’s requests. Some females who are desperate to advance in their career would inevitably succumb to their male superior’s generous offers. Such was the case of Harvey Weinstein, who had allegedly misused his powers as a reknowned Oscar Award winning film producer to sexually advance Hollywood star actressess such as Angelina Jolie, and model Cara Delevinge.

What are the advantages that the MeToo movement has brought about?

The MeToo movement has been effective as it has resulted in more people coming forward to share their sexual assault stories. Before the MeToo movement, sexual assault was a rarely discussed topic, and it was often regarded as “taboo” to speak about it. This was partly due to the fact that before the MeToo people, people’s awareness of such issues were generally less significant, and there were negligably zero avenues dedicated to tackling such issues of sexual harassment. There also lacked a public sphere for people to discuss these problems openly.

The MeToo movement is a stepping stone that women of the twenty-first century has taken to advance gender equality in the workforce. MeToo originated with a group of women who wanted to spread the important yet crucial message: that women were not just sexual objects of men to be used for their own pleasure. It sends across the vital message that women should be treated with dignity and respect, and that they had the absolute say with regards to their own body. It also apprises men that sexual mistreatment of women would not be a situation treated light-heartedly, and that dire consequences would have to be faced if one was to cross the line.

Who is most served by mainstream feminism?

Feminism, by definition, is supposed to be inclusive of everyone, regardless of race, language, gender or religion. However, in status quo, the MeToo movement is increasingly protrayed as a problem that only white, heterosexual cisgendered women face. The hard reality is that racism and discrimination still exists in the treatment of whether someone is deemed appropriate to be treated as a victim. In such cases, blacks, gays, homosexuals etcetera would obviously be at a disadvantage when they are also in the line with white privileged women, waiting to be granted their rights.

Many deplore and critisize the innate flaw of the MeToo movement, which is often scaled more to benefit the rich white population of women. This is especially evident as statistics have shown that the amount of news coverage that a white women would gain regarding the violation of her rights is disproportionately higher than that of a black women.

Groups of marginalised women felt that the movement had not spoke for them enough and that the feminist movement lacked inclusivity. It did not care about the impacts and the different ways that racism has shaped their lives as women of colour.

An anoymous interview by Middle Ground, a NGO aimed at increasing public awareness
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The above showcases the picture which was posted along side the caption “Black women have no place in the current MeToo movement” in a post by commentary website theblackjuice.com. On the right side of the picture is Tarana Burke, the founder of the MeToo movement.

Has the MeToo movement brought about more harm than good?

Although it is undeniable that the MeToo movement has indeed brought about much progress in advancing greater gender equality between the sexes, there are still many harms that are inherent to the movement itself. In every movement, there would inevitably exist people who would benefit from the movement, and others who would be on the losing end.

Men are now afraid to be in the same room with a younger colleague alone as they are afraid of being accused and having their namesake slandered and defamed. This poses a great hindrance to companies as it is necessary for companies to have private meetings to discuss proposals and come up with business strategies etc. Others are apprehensive to have dinner with a female colleague one on one. As a result, some may chose to have only the same sex or only males on their businss research team. This is to reduce the possibility of themselves being accused of being sexual predators, as the new media so often protrays men to be. In the long-term, this may eventually lead to companies only hiring males as they would no longer have to deal with complains of assaults in their companies. Is this neccessarily what women want?

Netflix film crew were reportedly banned from “looking at anyone for longer than five seconds, no lingering hugs, no flirting and no asking for a colleague’s phone number.” in the #metoo crackdown. Netflix’s new anti-harassment training in the wake of the meetoo movement has greatly disrupted production on it’s House of Cards show.

A commentary on the MeToo movement by The Independent magazine

Interaction between workers are innately crucial for progress to be made. The above extract however, shows that we instead coming up with reasons to build walls and barriers between the sexes and limit basic interaction just so that there will be lesser opportunities for potential inappropriate behaviour.

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Women regardless of age, race, religion, or gender identity pledging themselves to the feminist movement

~post by Charlotte 🙂

Who are we? – A Self Introduction

Hi there!

Many of you might be wondering: What exactly is BoysforGirls about?

We are a self-funded educational group aimed at raising public awareness of gender-related inequalities. Our goal is to promoting a heightened understanding and grasp of societal issues that women and men alike face in status quo.

Nomenclaturely inspired by the HeforShe movement, which is a United Nations initiated campaign recently founded in 2014, we aim to promote greater human rights for the often neglected faction of society. In addition, we hope to inspire greater policy reforms. We believe that concrete action is a necessary step in instigating greater societal change. Crucial hence, is the re-education and amendment of the methodology used in regards to this highly sensitive issue that we would like to bring forth today. We believe that it is only with greater awareness and action taken, would the stigmatisation of women be lifted, and gender equity and justice be served.

This website would address the pertinent issues pertaining to Gender Inequality in the Twenty-First Century, as well as the multiple attempts at solving this issue. In the public sphere, we will be looking at populist movement brought about by the public. A point in blank is the Women’s March of 2017, which was held in protests to US President Donald Trump’s inauguration and his strong political stances to which many felt opposed women and belittled their capabilities. Other issues that we will cover in our blog is the Feminist Movement and the #MeToo movement.

Sweden

Sweden is a country commonly known for its natural beauty and scenic tourist hotspots. It is a somewhat peaceful town, and is widely known as the third largest country in the European Union (EU). So, what is the level of gender equality in Sweden?

Sweden is generally a gender equal nation, having been rated the 5th best place to be a women by the Independent magazine.

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The above is a typical countryside scene of Sweden.

Equality in the Workplace

On the average board of a Swedish stock market company, almost one in three were women in 2015 – a great increase compared with a few years earlier. In fact, if this development continues at the same pace, the boards of listed companies in Sweden will be gender-equal within ten years.

Sweden Sverige (Swedish government website)

Although significant progress has been made in Swedish’s progress to have equal representation in the workforce, there is still ample space for improvements. For example, statistics have shown that in Sweden, nine out of ten people who appoint the board members are men. It would thus be unfeasible to expect an outcome of equal number of men and women in powers of position if a majority of men are the ones making the decision.

Other Swedish politicians have suggested crafting policies to mandate that each company have a gender-equal boardroom. This can be done through implementing fixed and specific quotas on the number of women to have in a board. Critics, however, have critisized the futility of such a policy. Having a fixed number of a women in a board, for example, may mean that a women may be chosen although she may have been neccessarily more skilled than another male collegue who did not get selected due to the limitations on the number of men. This may lead to a decrease in a company’s eventual effectiveness in serving its purpose as its constituent members have been selected not based on capabilities, but simply based upon the fact that that specific gender had to chosen to meet the given quota.

Another opposition to implementing the policy of gender quotas is the number of available men and women in that company. Different companies inevitably have a varying number of each gender in its company. It is for a fact that some industries relating to math and science have indeed seen a spike in the number of male employees hired in their companies. Hence, it would not be practical to implement such a quota in this case, as some companies would simply not have enough women to be able to fill the quota of having a equal number of each gender in higher positions. This is another issue that politicians propelling the implementation of policies to curb inequal representation of women have faced in the last decade.

Office bullying by men to women at work
The above picture is adapted from a BBC News report which stated how “women boses were ‘more depressed’ than their male counterparts”

The Swedish Discrimination Act from 2009 demands that employers not only actively promote equality between men and women, but also take measures against harassment. Following a 2017 expansion of the law, the preventive work includes harassment related to all grounds for discrimination: an employer’s sex, transgender identity or expression, ethnicity, religion or other belief, disability, sexual orientation and age.

Extracted from the Sweden Sverige (Swedish government website)

The above quote shows the hard stance that the Swedish government has taken in efforts to achieve gender equality in its nation. Gender inequality and any other form of discrimination against women, be it due to a women’s state of pregnancy or pre-labour, is not something that the Swedish government would stand to tolerate.

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Sweden has one of the highest records of women serving in National parliament, as see in the statistics listed in the picture above.

Sweden II

This post would focus on the backlash and public dissent that Sweden has received on some of the more extreme actions its government has taken to curb gender inequality.

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Some feel that gender role neutrality is being exaggerated and sweden is taking feminism to a radical level.

  • A Swedish politician proposed that men should be required by law to urinate in a sitting position as it leaves toilets cleaner and promotes prostate health
  • A school banned boys from standing up and peeing

The public’s reaction was that these limitations were restricting boy’s rights to be boys and innately constricting their freedom and liberty to have the choice to act in whatever way they deem appropriate.

Others deplore that implementing the proposed policy would be taking away the identity of men, in the sense that men would be forbidden from doing what they have traditionally always been doing, which is urinating in the standing position. Many critisize that this policy would essentially be preventing men from being who they truly are. Most see having to “urinate in the sitting position” as men being forced to become more “like a women”, and that men had to change their ways to make women’s lives of cleaning the washrooms easier.

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Since 2012, a new gender neutral personal pronoun, “hen” was introduced to the Swedish dictionary as an alternative to the gender-specific pronouns that are typically used (“he” or “she”)

In the face of rising gender inequality and the growing number of people resonating with the LGBTQ movement, the Swedish government introduced the above pronoun. The pronoun ‘hen” was meant to identify with all genders, including those that are under the category of non-binary. The Swedish government aimed at reducing the differences between men and women, and wanted to send across a message to all its citizens: that regardless of your gender identity or sexual orientation, all human being still had the same rights and responsibility to fulfil.

This intiative received much public backlsh as people thought that this new pronoun induced by the government was meant to reduce the inherent differences that exists between the two genders. Others thought that this meant changing girls to boys and boys to girls, eventually removing the identity of either gender.

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A cartoon figure deliberates her gender identity, and eventually seeks solace and peace when she is acknowledged as gender-neutral at the end of the gif.
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Gender neutral bathrooms are widely available in Sweden. This was an action meant to cater to those who identify with the LGBTQ movement. These bathrooms were generally meant for people who were transgender, homosexual, non-binary or bisexual etcetera.

~by charlotte 🙂

Meme: How gender equality can liberate women from their circumstances

disclaimer: this is a self-made meme by our group members

The above meme dramaticizes how dejected women would inevitably feel when they are treated unequally when in the same circumstances as men.

Gender equality (the cartoon character in yellow) comforts women and gives women the hope and solace they desperately need in these troubling times. Gender equality has advocated womens’ rights in the aspect that it has aimed to improve the current rights of women to put them on a level playing field with their male counterparts.

Iceland II

Iceland has been praised by many countries to be the place where women take charge. Below are a few statistics on gender equality in Iceland.

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Women compose 66% of total university graduates

Some Icelandic men may see this rise in the number of women vying for university degrees as a affront to males in the sphere of gender equality. But the truth is that in Iceland, many males chose to drop out of universities by their own liberty in hopes in pursuit of their own entrepreneur aspirations.

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Iceland is ranked first.

Women achieved 48% of seats in Iceland’s parliament in 2016

An all-female political party – the Women’s Alliance – was established and by 1999, more than a third of MPs were women. (Iceland was the first country to have that many women in a single legislative body – compared to 19% of women in the US congress)

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But iceland is not perfect either: Icelandic women earn 14% less than men on average.

Income inequality and the gender wage gap is a symatic issue that our society has to overcome with the passage of time. Although there gender equality has been achieved in the educational sphere, there is still inequality in the workforce. Public perception and ideologies would have to be altered before concrete change can be seen.

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strikes in Iceland in the process of attaining gender equality in Iceland.

Greatest obstacle of gender equality

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Women in developed countries are starting to be able to catch up to men in terms of education and in the workplace. In some countries, such as the United States, women even start to surpass men in terms of education. However, the biggest problem arises when young adults try to balance work and family, ending up causing women to take up the role of even managing the household. This is unfair and is unrealistic to expect gender equality.

https://www.summer.harvard.edu/inside-summer/gender-inequality-women-workplace

Pakistan

Pakistan is the world’s fifth most populous country and the second largest South Asian country. Moreover it is currently ranked as the country with the worst gender inequality.

It has long been clear to the public that in these less developed countries, women are more vulnerable to abuse and marginalisation. Their basic rights of attending school and taking up jobs are violated, leaving them hopeless in society and incapable of leading individual lives.

#BeatMe

#BeatMe is a gender inequality campaign started by UN Pakistanis women in 2016.
It gives an unconventional twist for women’s rights and their equality, empowering women to stand up for themselves.

Despite all the gender discrimination happening in Pakistan, these individuals started the #BeatMe campaign to fight back the violence and prejudical treatments which Pakistanis women face. It empowers women to not remain silent, but to speak up for themselves, knowing that they are not the only ones facing unfair treatments.

Original poem on gender inequality

Equality does not discriminate,

Let’s all start to educate.

Who says men always dominate,

I think that we all do equate.

Girls in Nigeria, lack the education

So what’s up with all these segregation?

They tell women, stay home to cook,

How about let her read a book.

Women are earning less than men,

This has been happening time and again.

So let’s all advocate for human rights,

To curb gender inequality,

And to save our society.